{"id":6617,"date":"2019-01-14T20:50:49","date_gmt":"2019-01-14T20:50:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/performerstuff.com\/mgs\/?p=6617"},"modified":"2021-07-22T15:28:00","modified_gmt":"2021-07-22T15:28:00","slug":"10-tips-for-being-a-positive-role-model-in-your-theatre-community","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/performerstuff.com\/mgs\/10-tips-for-being-a-positive-role-model-in-your-theatre-community\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Tips for Being a Positive Role Model in Your Theatre Community"},"content":{"rendered":"

10 Tips for Being a Positive Role Model in Your Theatre Community<\/h3>\n \"\"<\/a><\/span>

Written by Ashleigh Gardner<\/p>\n

January 14, 2019<\/p>\n<\/font>

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When we\u2019re young, budding theatre majors, we\u2019re always looking for an older, more experienced theatre professional to show us the ropes. They teach us new ways of tackling challenges and encourage us to pursue our dreams while making our community a better place. But what happens when <\/span>we\u2019re <\/span><\/i>the ones who are older? How can we be the role models we once admired? If you\u2019re a young adult looking for ways to make a positive difference in your theatre community through mentorship, take a look at the tips below!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Stray away from gossiping about other artists.<\/h4>\n
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In an industry where people often compete for notoriety, fame, and attention, it\u2019s easy to get caught up in gossip. Do yourself (and your proteg\u00e9) a favor, and stay away from malicious gossip. Gossiping about other artists shows those young people who look up to you that social side-talk is more important than the project and art at hand. (It also gives the younger artist permission to continue the cycle of gossip in the community.) Help make gossip a taboo topic. Encourage artists to work on bettering their own projects instead of focusing on who messed up in an audition. Remember: community over competition.<\/span><\/p>\n

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2.\u00a0Stop and think before working with artists who have poor reputations in the community.<\/h4>\n
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Sometimes, other artists in the community have poor reputations for the way they misuse their authority: not paying artists, verbally abusing them, coercing artists into unprofessional relationships, spreading malicious rumors, or even being dishonest to get ahead. If you, as the mentor, know these things to be true, reconsider working with people who have a poor reputation. Instead, show your proteg\u00e9 that you respect professionalism in theatre by <\/span>working with <\/span><\/i>theatre artists who are positive community members that pay artists, speak respectfully to them, maintain a professional distance, converse honestly, and act truthfully. This shows younger actors, directors, technicians, and writers that ethics matters just as much as talent.<\/span><\/p>\n

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3. See your own projects through.<\/h4>\n
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It\u2019s often very difficult to see a huge project through, but it\u2019s important that every project, no matter how large or small, is completed. Completing your own <\/i>projects is a great way to show younger generations that belief in a project is half the battle.<\/p>\n

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4. Make time to spend with them.<\/h4>\n
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There\u2019s nothing more frustrating than a mentor who doesn\u2019t have time for their mentee. If you\u2019re committed to taking on the responsibility of teaching a younger artist, then make time for them. Set a time every week or every other week for a lunch or coffee outing. This gives the mentee time to prepare some questions or topics of discussion, and it gives you the ability to transfer some sage wisdom to an artist who may need it.<\/span><\/p>\n

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5. Give positive advice (even if it means admitting your shortcomings).<\/h4>\n
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There are so many topics that are included in this section, from advising your proteg\u00e9 to choose colorblind casting to never being afraid to take a break from projects. If your mentee asks you for advice on how they should handle a certain situation, then use your past personal experience to inform what you tell them. However, be honest with them. If you made a mistake or several mistakes, admit it, and then move forward and share how your mentee could do a better job than you did. Advice isn\u2019t just limited to personal experience either! If you\u2019ve read a great book on directing, then recommend it. If you\u2019ve heard about a really effective workshop training, then recommend that, too. The whole purpose of mentoring is helping the younger generation do a better job than we did in the past.<\/span><\/p>\n

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6. Provide encouragement while delivering realistic expectations.<\/h4>\n
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Young artists often get discouraged when they encounter obstacles that they have repeatedly encountered <\/span>or <\/span><\/i>obstacles that are brand new (and also scary). This is the perfect time for a mentor to step in and provide some encouragement (while also accepting that things are still very difficult). A great way to give positive reinforcement is to acknowledge the difficulty the mentee is experiencing, then letting them know how their various strengths can help the project move forward. If you can, help them find a new perspective on the experience.<\/span><\/p>\n

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7. Don\u2019t do the work for them.<\/h4>\n
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If a mentor does all the work for their mentee, the younger person learns nothing \u00a0\u2014 only that work will be done for them. Doing all the work for someone else robs them of the value of personal experience. Instead, stand to the side and be available to give advice (when solicited) and encouragement.<\/span><\/p>\n

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8. Remind them that reviews aren\u2019t everything.<\/h4>\n
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When a show is reviewed, sometimes the reviews aren\u2019t all that stellar. In cases like this, remind the artist that a review doesn\u2019t define their future. It\u2019s just an opinion of one person. Conversely, if a review is really positive, remind your\u00a0mentee not to let the positive feedback go to their head. Let them know that humility is always the best response to take in any situation in which their art is praised — and criticized.<\/span><\/p>\n

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9. Stand up for them and squish the hater-talk.<\/h4>\n
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If you find yourself in a conversation where your mentee\u2019s project or efforts are being insulted, step up, be the bigger person, and squish that negative talk. There\u2019s nothing more heroic than a person standing up for another person\u2019s honor, efforts, and reputation. This can be really difficult if you are closely acquainted with those Negative Nancy’s doing the gossiping, but if your mentee catches wind of your valiant efforts to defend their project, they\u2019ll feel secure knowing that they can trust you with their own personal artistic journey. It also sets an example to the gossipers that ethics are more important than casual trash talk.<\/span><\/p>\n

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10. Keep things professional.<\/h4>\n
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Bringing this back around to #2, always keep your mentorship relationship professional. This means creating a safe and respectful social and physical distance between yourself and your younger mentee. Set boundaries for yourself, and respect the boundaries that your mentee has also established. Power and influence can sometimes turn sour \u00a0\u2014 don\u2019t let it. Take charge of creating a safe space for yourself and your proteg\u00e9 by keeping things professional at all times.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Need some advice? We\u2019ve got you covered.<\/h3>\n